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Inner Counsel Psychotherapy Blog
Honest, practical writing on how we cope, connect and keep going, from burnout and the inner critic to humour, hope and the seasons that test us. By Stefan Jurgens, RP (Qualifying).
General information only, not therapy or medical advice. Reading it doesn’t create a therapeutic relationship.


Managing Stress, Anxiety, and Holiday Burnout
The holidays do not need to be perfect. They only need to feel like yours | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Stefan Jurgens
Dec 5, 20253 min read


Your Inner Voice Shapes Your Future: Mindful Self-Talk Tips
The language we use shapes how we interpret the world. Adding "yet" to thoughts like "I haven't reached my goals yet" shifts from self-criticism to possibility. Replace "I can't handle this" with "This feels hard, but I can take one step at a time." Speak to yourself with the same respect you'd offer a friend. Small changes in self-talk build resilience and emotional balance.

Stefan Jurgens
Oct 20, 20254 min read


Beyond Work: Why Personal Growth Comes First
I worked late, checked emails over dinner, and took pride in always being available. From the outside it looked like commitment. In reality, I was drained. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Stefan Jurgens
Oct 14, 20253 min read


Thriving Through Thanksgiving: Presence Over Perfection
No table is perfect. Real connection begins when we stop expecting it to be | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Stefan Jurgens
Oct 9, 20254 min read


Navigating Digital Brain Fog with Compassion and Mindfulness
Digital brain fog can leave us distracted, anxious, and drained. Mindfulness, self-compassion, and simple tech boundaries help restore focus, emotional balance, and meaningful connection in daily life. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Stefan Jurgens
Oct 6, 20254 min read


Moving Forward with Healing, Humour, and Self-Compassion
Moving forward is about choosing compassion, shifting focus, and allowing humour to lighten life’s weight. Healing begins with connection and grows through trust in the life waiting ahead. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Stefan Jurgens
Sep 29, 20253 min read


Feeling Unjustly Treated? How to Cope and Stay Grounded
This post explores how to cope with unfair treatment by naming emotions, pausing before reacting, and protecting your peace, helping you stay grounded and move forward with clarity and self-respect. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Stefan Jurgens
Sep 25, 20254 min read


Tired of the Same Old Story? How to Rewrite Your Negative Self-Narrative
Explore how to notice and challenge negative self-narratives. Learn practical steps to gently rewrite your inner story, build self-compassion, and cultivate confidence, mindfulness, and personal freedom in daily life. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Stefan Jurgens
Sep 22, 20254 min read


Sharing Too Much? How to Balance Self-Disclosure
Learn how self-disclosure shapes your mind, body, and relationships. Discover practical strategies to share safely, strengthen connection, and support well-being through a biopsychosocial perspective. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Stefan Jurgens
Sep 18, 20254 min read
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