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Navigating Digital Brain Fog with Compassion and Mindfulness
Digital brain fog can leave us distracted, anxious, and drained. Mindfulness, self-compassion, and simple tech boundaries help restore focus, emotional balance, and meaningful connection in daily life. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Stefan Jurgens
Oct 64 min read


Feeling Unjustly Treated? How to Cope and Stay Grounded
This post explores how to cope with unfair treatment by naming emotions, pausing before reacting, and protecting your peace, helping you stay grounded and move forward with clarity and self-respect. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Stefan Jurgens
Sep 254 min read


5 More Reflections to Calm Your Mind & Enrich Your Life — Part 2/2
Discover 5 gentle mental health practices to reduce anxiety and nurture happiness. Learn how action, habits, and presence create calm in daily life. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy Toronto

Stefan Jurgens
Sep 152 min read


Reflections To Calm Your Mind & Enrich Your Life — Part 1/2
Here are five gentle reminders to help you step out of that loop and move through life with more ease.

Stefan Jurgens
Sep 113 min read


Small Acts, Big Impact: Daily Tools for Sustainable Rest
This final post in the Permission to Pause series offers practical, science-backed micro-practices to make rest and self-compassion a sustainable, guilt-free part of daily life.

Stefan Jurgens
Aug 43 min read


Meeting Your Tiredness with Kindness: The RAIN of Self-Compassion
Discover RAIN, Tara Brach’s self-compassion practice to meet exhaustion and self-criticism with kindness. Recognise, Allow, Investigate, and Nurture your way to inner refuge. | Inner Counsel Therapy

Stefan Jurgens
Jul 283 min read


It’s OK To Feel Tired: Your Exhaustion is Valid
Part 1/4 of "The Permission to Pause" Series - Your exhaustion isn't laziness. It's your body/mind signaling need. Validate physical fatigue, emotional drain & longing. Silence the inner critic. Rest is valid.

Stefan Jurgens
Jul 143 min read


A Fifth Pillar of Well‑Being: What My Checklist Was Missing
Balance isn’t found in perfect systems, but in honest moments—the pause between tasks, the ‘no’ that protects your energy, the quiet noticing of what actually helps.

Stefan Jurgens
Jul 74 min read


Adult Play Isn't Childish: It's Essential for Stress Relief, Creativity & Connection
Adult play isn't childish—it's essential for wellbeing. Discover how playful moments reduce stress, spark creativity, deepen connections, and build resilience. Reclaim joy through simple, present-minded engagement with life.

Stefan Jurgens
Jul 44 min read


Your Secret Compass: Why Personal Values Shape Everything
Feeling lost in your own life? Your hidden values may hold the key. Discover the 5-minute exercise that helped me leave an unfulfilling...

Stefan Jurgens
Jun 162 min read


Anxiety Doesn’t Have to Run Your Life: A Therapist’s Reset Plan
When My Anxiety Finally Got My Attention Another day in my office, staring at my computer screen with a racing heart and a loud to-do...

Stefan Jurgens
May 292 min read


Your Inner Voice, Your Choice
Understand how your inner voices shape mental health. Learn to reframe negative self-talk, embrace self-compassion, and reclaim control. Practical tips for transforming inner dialogue into a source of strength. A client once told me, “It’s great to have someone listen—I spend all day listening to myself.” Their comment stuck with me because it nails the constant inner chatter we all experience: bursts of optimism, nagging doubts, and that critical voice which bleats, “You

Stefan Jurgens
May 264 min read


The Quiet Rebellion of Being Here: A Guide to Unstructured Aliveness
What if your next ‘to-do’ is to let the sky decide? How unscripted hours outdoors—tracking ants, savouring street noise, or sitting still—can dismantle the cult of busyness. We’ve all been there: rushing to finish a to-do list, scrolling mindlessly, or planning tomorrow’s worries while today’s sunlight fades. But what if the most radical thing you could do today is … nothing? Not “self-care” as another chore, but aliveness as an act of quiet rebellion. Let me tell you about

Stefan Jurgens
May 223 min read


Calm isn’t the absence of chaos—it’s the presence of choice
Life loves curve-balls. Like yesterday, when workers ruptured a pipe in my yard while upgrading water lines. " Oh no, I don’t know what...

Stefan Jurgens
May 73 min read


When the Universe Gazes Back: How The Stars Help Us Find Ourselves
Starlight Becomes Inner Light I’ve been amazed by the idea of ‘outer space’ since the Apollo days. As a kid, I’d lie in our backyard,...

Stefan Jurgens
May 53 min read


A Simple Secret to Feeling More Alive
A walk in the city reminded me that tiny acts of noticing—buds on trees, a stranger’s smile, warm coffee—can reignite joy. No grand plans needed. Just curiosity. I’ve been knee-deep in the ‘wake up, work, zone out, repeat’ cycle. You’ve probably felt it too, haven’t you? That autopilot state where days blur and you’re doing life instead of living it. I wasn’t drowning, exactly—just… numb. Going through motions, ticking boxes, showing up for everyone except myself.

Stefan Jurgens
Apr 282 min read


Declutter Your Mind: How Therapy Can Spark a Mental Reset This Spring
Feeling mentally cluttered after a long winter? Just like cleaning out your home, therapy helps clear emotional buildup, release old...

Stefan Jurgens
Apr 142 min read


Hope: Our Hidden Superpower for Professionals Facing Burnout and Uncertainty
Ever felt like you're running on empty, despite doing everything “right” in your career? I’ve been there. Hope is more than wishful...

Stefan Jurgens
Mar 204 min read


Embracing Empathy, Self-Care, and Professional Confidence
Success isn’t about pushing harder—it’s about aligning with your values, setting boundaries, and prioritizing well-being. True confidence...

Stefan Jurgens
Mar 173 min read


Managing Anxiety in Uncertain Times: Lessons from a Psychotherapist
Do you feel overwhelmed by the news cycle? You're not alone. Anxiety spreads fast, but so does calm. Lately, I’ve been feeling it. There's a persistent anxiety, a sense of unease about the world. Maybe you have, too? Economic uncertainty, political instability, and an endless stream of alarming headlines make it difficult to stay grounded. Even as a psychotherapist, trained to help others navigate emotions, I have to remind myself to apply the very strategies I teach. The tru

Stefan Jurgens
Mar 134 min read

Looking for insight, guidance, or practical strategies to navigate life’s challenges?
This blog offers tools from therapy to help you manage burnout, heal from past wounds, and explore personal growth. You’ll find posts designed to foster emotional wellness, resilience, and a deeper connection with yourself and others.
Welcome to your journey toward self-discovery and meaningful change.
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