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Your Inner Voice Shapes Your Future: Mindful Self-Talk Tips
The language we use shapes how we interpret the world. Adding "yet" to thoughts like "I haven't reached my goals yet" shifts from self-criticism to possibility. Replace "I can't handle this" with "This feels hard, but I can take one step at a time." Speak to yourself with the same respect you'd offer a friend. Small changes in self-talk build resilience and emotional balance.

Stefan Jurgens
Oct 204 min read


Feeling Unjustly Treated? How to Cope and Stay Grounded
This post explores how to cope with unfair treatment by naming emotions, pausing before reacting, and protecting your peace, helping you stay grounded and move forward with clarity and self-respect. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy

Stefan Jurgens
Sep 254 min read


5 More Reflections to Calm Your Mind & Enrich Your Life — Part 2/2
Discover 5 gentle mental health practices to reduce anxiety and nurture happiness. Learn how action, habits, and presence create calm in daily life. | Inner Counsel Psychotherapy Toronto

Stefan Jurgens
Sep 152 min read


Reflections To Calm Your Mind & Enrich Your Life — Part 1/2
Here are five gentle reminders to help you step out of that loop and move through life with more ease.

Stefan Jurgens
Sep 113 min read


Your Brain Believes What You Tell It: How Self-Talk Shapes Your Mental Health
Learn how intentional self-talk rewires your brain through neuroplasticity. Practical reframing and emotional awareness reduce stress, build resilience, and improve lasting well-being ... one kinder thought at a time.

Stefan Jurgens
Aug 252 min read


You’re Not Alone in Feeling Lonely: Here’s What Helps
A photo looking down at two people's feet standing on sand.

Stefan Jurgens
Jun 192 min read


From Family History to Personal Success: Transforming Inherited Challenges into Professional Growth
We inherit more than just our genes—our ancestors’ fears, beliefs, strengths, and struggles shape who we are today. By understanding...

Stefan Jurgens
Apr 34 min read


Navigating Job Loss: Managing the Emotional Fallout and Finding Your Way Forward
Losing a job is more than just a financial setback—it can feel like losing a part of yourself. I know this firsthand. When I was let go...

Stefan Jurgens
Mar 313 min read


Therapeutic Letter-Writing: A Powerful Tool for Clarity, Healing, and Stress Management
Therapeutic letter-writing offers an efficient way to manage stress, process emotions, and gain clarity. This simple practice delivers profound emotional relief, making it a valuable investment in well-being. Imagine that it's a busy, busy day with endless meetings, emails, and responsibilities. And amid to-do lists and tight deadlines, it’s easy to neglect our well-being. This is where therapeutic letter-writing, a practice grounded in Narrative Therapy, can offer a profound

Stefan Jurgens
Jan 213 min read


How Internal Family Systems Helps Build Emotional Resilience For Professionals
As a professional, you're always seeking tools to build self-awareness, emotional resilience, and inner balance. Internal Family Systems (IFS) offers a transformative approach for addressing internal conflicts, promoting healing, and reconnecting with your compassionate core Self. You might be asking, "So what?" IFS techniques can help us resolve inner conflicts, reduce stress, and make better decisions, resulting in improved clarity, emotional intelligence, and resilience. T

Stefan Jurgens
Jan 63 min read


Managing Stress, Anxiety, and Burnout During the Holiday Season
The holiday season is typically viewed as a period of joy, connection, and celebration. However, it's important to acknowledge that this...

Stefan Jurgens
Dec 16, 20244 min read


The Four Pillars of Well-Being: How Therapy Supports a Balanced Life
Achieving lasting well-being is like building a house: it relies on four foundational pillars—rest, movement, nutrition, and relationships. Each pillar plays a critical role in maintaining mental, emotional, and physical health. Neglecting one can lead to imbalance, potentially causing stress, anxiety, or depression. Let’s explore how each pillar contributes to a healthy, fulfilling life and how psychotherapy can help restore balance when life feels overwhelming. Rest: Rechar

Stefan Jurgens
Oct 14, 20242 min read

Looking for insight, guidance, or practical strategies to navigate life’s challenges?
This blog offers tools from therapy to help you manage burnout, heal from past wounds, and explore personal growth. You’ll find posts designed to foster emotional wellness, resilience, and a deeper connection with yourself and others.
Welcome to your journey toward self-discovery and meaningful change.
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