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Your Inner Voice, Your Choice
Understand how your inner voices shape mental health. Learn to reframe negative self-talk, embrace self-compassion, and reclaim control. Practical tips for transforming inner dialogue into a source of strength. A client once told me, “It’s great to have someone listen—I spend all day listening to myself.” Their comment stuck with me because it nails the constant inner chatter we all experience: bursts of optimism, nagging doubts, and that critical voice which bleats, “You

Stefan Jurgens
May 264 min read


On Making Mistakes: Why Falling Forward is Part of Being Human
Mistakes aren’t failures—they’re feedback. Embracing them fosters growth, authenticity, and resilience. Celebrate the stumbles; they’re...

Stefan Jurgens
May 192 min read


The Beauty of Imperfect: Embracing Our Flaws
The Floorboards That Taught Me A Lesson This weekend I scrubbed our old veranda floorboards. Seasons of rain, sun, and neglect had faded...

Stefan Jurgens
May 122 min read


Who Are You? Reconnect With Your Self
Healing begins when we’re seen—not for our roles or résumés, but for who we are beneath them. Therapy shouldn’t be another...

Stefan Jurgens
May 12 min read


The Overthinking Trap: How to Reclaim Your Inner Wisdom and Thrive
Overthinking drains our energy and dims our potential. Learn why your mind races, how to reconnect with your innate resilience, and practical ways to trust yourself again.

Stefan Jurgens
Apr 243 min read


The High Achiever's Dilemma: When Your Perfectionism Stops Being Perfect
Picture yourself at 9 PM, still at your desk, rewriting that email for the fifth time. You tell yourself it's about "maintaining standards," but deep down, you know you're trapped in a cycle that's costing you. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. Perfectionism among professionals has skyrocketed by 33% since 1990, taking a toll on our careers and well-being. The Professional's Perfectionism Paradox We wear our perfectionism like a badge of honour. But when does this dr

Stefan Jurgens
Apr 213 min read


Overcome Imposter Syndrome and Build Lasting Confidence
Struggling with imposter syndrome? Learn what it is, why it happens, and how therapy can help you break free, gain confidence, and thrive...

Stefan Jurgens
Mar 103 min read


Get Unstuck: Move Toward the Life You Want
Have you ever felt like you're running on a hamster wheel? Going through the motions day after day, but not actually moving toward what you truly want in life? I've been there. A few years ago, I found myself in a career that looked successful on paper but left me feeling empty and unfulfilled. Each morning, I'd wake up with a sense of dread, knowing I was living someone else's definition of success rather than following my path. This feeling of being "stuck" is incredibly co

Stefan Jurgens
Feb 273 min read


The Perfectionism Paradox: A High Achiever’s Hidden Struggle
Perfectionism isn’t about doing your best—it’s about never feeling good enough. I know this firsthand. Maybe you can relate?...

Stefan Jurgens
Feb 242 min read


The Intelligence Advantage: Turning Insight into Influence
Ever shared a brilliant idea in a meeting, only to be met with silence? Or noticed that your insights, instead of sparking collaboration,...

Stefan Jurgens
Feb 172 min read


The Drive to Accomplish: Finding Peace in the Pause
Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in a cycle of always needing to accomplish something? Like if you’re not working, learning, fixing...

Stefan Jurgens
Jan 162 min read

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This blog offers tools from therapy to help you manage burnout, heal from past wounds, and explore personal growth. You’ll find posts designed to foster emotional wellness, resilience, and a deeper connection with yourself and others.
Welcome to your journey toward self-discovery and meaningful change.
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